Nature Versus Nurture Debate in Psychology
Nature Versus Nurture Debate in Psychology
When I was a young child, people always used to squabble over whether I was more like my mother or my father. Some people swore that not only was the physical resemblance to my mother similar, but our personalities were eerily identical. Others argued that my father and I were carbon copies of each other, right down to our Scorpio wit. Then later in life I found myself assimilated more and more to my best friend, who I hadn’t grown up with, but had begun to spend every waking minute with during my early teenage years. People swore we were sisters, and agreed that we were twins separated at birth.
So is the development of my personality mapped out before my birth, thanks to my parent’s genes, or is my personality a result of my day to day experiences? This is the essence of the controversial nature-nurture issue.
The nature-nurture issue is the longstanding controversy over the relative contributions of genes and experience to the development of psychological traits and behaviors. In my mind, heredity is without question a major factor in the development of people’s personalities, and nowhere is this more apparent than in my life. Some of my similarities to my parents are so unintentional that I find myself a bit irritated when I realize that I am emulating them so closely.
An excellent example of this issue is my similarities to my father presently. Even before I was born, my father was always a good talker. He was the salesman type, the type that could sell anything to anybody. He is a fast talker, and also used his gift to get things for free wherever he went. God only knows where his gift came from (perhaps his father) but somehow I wound up with it. I was always the one that had that priceless ability to talk myself out of trouble under any circumstances, and we would often joke that I “got it from my dad’s side”. As I have come to learn more about heredity and, specifically, the nature-nurture issue, I can’t help but wonder if qualities such as the “salesman” quality are indeed passed down to me through my father’s genes, or if it’s just something that I picked up from him during my childhood.
The nurture part of the equation suggests that I obtained this...